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Summer vacation is officially underway in my house. Five-count’em-five kids looking for mischief and messes. Which means it’s the perfect time to spiff up the chore chart. This is an easy one I created for my middle three kids.  I like that it is simple and versatile so I can change it as the kids grow.

You will need:

• Adhesive lettering -Found in the scrapbook department of any craft store.  I used my Silhouette to make mine.
• Auto pinstriping – Found at our local Auto Zone for $3.50.  This is how I made perfectly straight (and long!) lines.  One roll gave me plenty left over for future projects.
• Dry erase/magnet board – Got mine at Target. I use a dry erase marker to write in chores, but you could create magnet system like THIS one or THIS one.

Each child has a column, with a place at the top for me to write in daily chores.  These are tasks I expect them to do every day (Monday-Friday). Below that, there is a box for weekly chores.  Finally at the bottom I have a space for “Extra Chores”.

Daily Chores
In my house, each child has six daily chores, chosen by age and ability.  Includes things like: tidy bedroom, water flowers, empty trash, wash counters, sweep patio, vacuum, etc.  In the summer, these are performed in the morning after breakfast.  The seventh chore is called “PM Redo”, which means they are to revisit each of their daily chores to be sure everything is still in order.  For example, the child responsible for vacuuming will do a quick once-over in the high traffic areas or where needed.  This is done just before dad gets home from work so the house is pleasant and relaxing for him.  If you’re a mom, then you know what can happen to a house between breakfast and dinner.  Which is why I love the PM Redo.

Weekly Chores
Each child has one “weekly” chore per day, Monday through Friday.  Some of these are chosen because they only need occasional attention, such as cleaning doors/trim, washing tub, vacuuming under furniture cushions, etc.  Others are chosen because they are things the children need to learn.  Each child has a turn every week setting the table, helping with dinner and doing the laundry.  My older kids are periodically assigned basic home and car maintenance tasks such as checking fluids in cars, checking tire pressure, changing AC filter in our home, etc.  These are things that are done with supervision, so we work on them primarily in the summer when we have more time.

Extra Chores
The daily and weekly tasks are those they are expected to do as part of our family. We do not offer allowances. The extra chores are things I will pay them for. Here are some examples from our chart this week:

• Clean patio door windows inside and out $0.50
• Dust downstairs blinds $1
• Wash dining chairs $1
• Vacuum mom’s minivan $1
• Organize garage $2
• Organize lower kitchen cabinets $2

I have read (and tried) a rewards-based chore system and I believe it has its merits.  But I prefer a system that instills in them an expectation for some family contributions with no rewards.  And I like that they are still able to work and earn for extra effort by picking up a paid chore here or there.

Chore Chart Success: Teach (and Reteach!)
This is a lesson I learned the hard way. My poor, sweet oldest son Caleb was our guinea pig child, since we really learned by trial and error with him. As a (very) young mom, I naively thought I should be able to show him how to do a chore 3 or 4 times and he should be able to take it from there. I would get frustrated when I came into his recently “cleaned” room to find disheveled toys and an unmade bed.

Today I realize that training a child requires consistent, diligent and repeated effort. Sometimes they forget. For years.  Sometimes they get distracted. Sometimes they want to see how much they can get away with. Whatever the reason, if they need another lesson then they get one. Because my ultimate goal is not to have a perfectly cleaned room, but to raise an independent and competent future adult.  Getting angry or frustrated does nothing to accomplish this goal.  Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt.  Doesn’t work.

What Autism Taught Me About Parenting
I learned a lot about parenting by having an autistic child. Dylans behavior therapist always says, “If he isn’t getting it, then we’re doing something wrong”. I like that attitude, because it assumes that my son is capable. That he wants to learn.  That he’s trying.  That we just need to try another approach.  To reteach and retrain with patience, optimism and praise.  As many times as it takes until he gets it.  It’s a great perspective, and it gets results.  Learning that about him helped me see the truth in that for my other four kids. I don’t always know why they need repeated lessons on the same thing. But if they didn’t learn it then I need to try again, and maybe a little differently next time.

So thanks to my sweet son for teaching me yet another valuable life lesson. I’d love to hear about the chore system you use in your home.  Share in the comments!

PS: In case you’re wondering why this chart only applies to three of my five kiddos, the youngest (autistic) has his own visual chart.  My oldest is working two jobs and saving for college in the fall, so he is only responsible for dishes and mowing.

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A few days ago I shared a tutorial for making your own Water or Sand Table. Reader Stephanie emailed to let me know she had the same idea and recently created one for her own children! For hers, she visited her local Habitat for Humanity Restore and picked up a half-circle premade countertop and wood for the legs for just $13! Her hubby cut holes in it to fit two bins as shown for the sand and water.

She said,
Like you, I was not going to pay the outrageous retail price for one at the store so we went out and checked all of the second hand stores and we ended up at the Habitat for Humanity Restore, where they sell old building materials to help raise money to build new houses for those in need. We found a half circle countertop for $10 and an 8 foot 2×8″ piece of lumber for $3 – never used! My husband measured and cut the wood and made legs, then I had two bins I found at the dollar tree and he cut holes in the top to insert them. Viola! We have our water/sand table! And while we were shopping at the second hand stores I picked up some old utensils for the kiddos to play with for really cheap. They sell for around $0.25 ea. Just had to share with you how we made ours!! I have 1 and 3 year olds who play ALL day with it!!!

It looks like she has some colored sand or rice in one of her bins, which got me thinking this would be a great table for making sensory bins for your little ones as well.

Thanks so much Stephanie for sharing your DIY table with us   I love to see reader projects so please keep them coming, folks! Right now the focus is on affordable summer fun, so snap a pic or two and send it to me at momsbyheart at gmail dot com so other moms can be inspired.

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I have been looking for an affordable way to dress up a big wall in my boys room for awhile now.  I had almost given up, when a trip to Michael’s yielded the perfect idea.

I found these two cowboy posters on sale for 50% off. They were perfect for cutting apart and making into individual pieces.  Price: $7.50 each.

I cut out the individual picture tiles…

And used a little Mod Podge – okay a LOT of Mod Podge to affix them to some 1/4″ plywood we had left over from another project.

The edges of the plywood were painted brown. I used some spray paint I had on hand, but you could also use acrylic craft paint.

I attached some saw tooth picture hangers and used THIS trick to line them up perfectly. And voila!

An easy way to add some boy-ish wall art without breaking the bank! Since I had the plywood and paint on hand, my out of pocket total was under $23. That’s less than $4 per picture!  You can usually find these posters at craft or hobby stores in a variety of styles.

UPDATE: ADDITIONAL TIPS FROM READERS

Reader Tracy did this project for her daughter’s room using flower tile posters. She says,
“You can cut down on the amount of Mod Podge needed and get a better adhesion when you seal the wood [and allow sealer to dry] before gluing the print to the plywood” – great tip, Tracy!

Reader Melissa used spray adhesive instead of Mod Podge and she says, “…it worked like a charm!”

Thanks for all your input!  If you decide to do this project, leave us a comment and let us know how it goes.  Or drop me an email momsbyheart at gmail dot com with a photo so I can share it

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Inspired Ideas has an easy technique for transferring photos onto candle holders.

The Glitter Guide used old jars, glue and glitter to create this pretty tablescape. I’m thinking silver and red glitter for mine.

Wedding by Color used scrapbook paper and glue or double sided tape to make matching votives.

Add a little food coloring to your Mod Podge and turn an old jar into this! Visit Gingerbread Snowflakes for the details.

Craftzine has a great tutorial for using tissue paper and glue to create your own votive designs.

Looking for a deal on votive candles? You can use the Walgreens in-ad coupon this week and get them 4/$1.

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Here’s a great DIY for the holidays. Head over to Dandelions & Dust Bunnies to see her handmade Gumball Machine. Created by using a dollar store glass bowl and terra cotta pot + a little spray paint. This would be great painted up in a fall or winter theme with coordinating candy inside!

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Take a little chalkboard paint and an old board book and make a portable chalkboard – perfect for road trips. Oh Dee Doh shows us how she did it. You can buy chalkboard paint at most retail stores that sell paint, or head over HERE to learn how you can make it yourself!

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